如果回到十八岁,我要对自己说……(5)
I know I just said that girls aren't going to like you anyway, but that's not entirely true. While you are accumulating the wisdom that comes with life experiences, your best shot is to project confidence.
我知道我刚刚说了女孩子们不会喜欢你的,但是也不尽然。当你从生活经验中积累了智慧之后,你的杀手锏就是展现你的自信。
Always act like you know what you're doing, even if you don't. The biggest turn-off for a girl is self-doubt. If she still doesn't like you, take it with grace and move on quickly.
一定要表现的知道自己在干什么,就算你其实不知道。对女孩子而言,最扫兴的就是自我怀疑。如果她仍然不喜欢你的话,要从容的接受现实然后向下一个目标出发。
Don't start doubting yourself if you get turned down. You're going to get turned down A LOT before you finally get the girl.
不要在被拒绝的时候开始怀疑自己。追求成功之前你总是会遭遇无数次的拒绝的。
Don't Get Attached
不要被束缚
When you finally do get a girlfriend, take it easy. Along the same line as not trying to grow up too quickly, don't fall into the trap of thinking that this is the best girl you'll ever get. The second biggest turnoff for a girl is an 18 year old guy who's already thinking about marriage.
当你有了女朋友,不要太紧张。和不要急着长大的道理一样,不要过早的认定这就是你一生的最爱。对女孩子而言,第二扫兴的事情就是一个18岁却已经考虑结婚的人。
Relax a little and enjoy the moment. Besides, you're going to have several girlfriends before you find “the one.” How are you going to be able to know what you want if you don't have anything to compare it to?
轻松的享受当下。另外,在找到真命天女之前你可能会有好几个女朋友。如果没有可以比较的参照物,你如何得知你究竟想要什么呢?
As you get older, you'll naturally become more attractive to women. I had no idea this was true when I was your age. I thought that I was as attractive as I'd ever be. Not true.
当你日渐长大,你会很自然的对女性越来越有吸引力。我在你那个年龄的时候完全不知道这事情。我认为那个时候的我是最有吸引力的。这是不对的。
(编辑:joice)