1. Make a good first impression on everybody you meet. First impressions can make you or break you and you want every person you meet to remember you, in a good way.
2. Good posture is important. The way you hold yourself also gives off a lot about you. If you slouch your shoulders, you won't look like the most welcoming girl. Make a habit of good poise. Shoulders back, stomach in, and chin tilted up slightly.
3. Speak clearly. No mumbling! When it's your turn to speak, talk loudly and clearly, but don't shout. You don't want to scare them off.
4.You can realize what's happening in the "in" crowd and pick up on slang. You don't want to finally get in and when the most popular girl says something, you have no clue what she is talking about.
5.Change is good. Remember who you are in the making of this change. Get used to the idea that you and your friends' bodies and minds are constantly changing! Make an effort to stay in style. Try wearing makeup, or making a signature accessory. One thing to remember - in girl world, if boys like you, or talk to you, you will become popular. So, girl world doesn't revolve around just girls,or does it? People say "Don't change and just be yourself," and this is true, but be your best self. Take it one step at a time, and build your confidence. Popular people are social and very busy.
6.Be confident. Stop thinking you are ugly or that you aren't cool enough. Everyone is either beautiful on the inside, outside, or both. Be comfortable with that! Think of your qualities for a while. You're cool through them. Just believe in yourself and let people know the real you. Also, to be confident wake up every morning and tell yourself how pretty you are. It may sound conceited but it is a great way to start the day. Nobody will believe your beautiful if you don't.
7.Be yourself. Being popular doesn't have to be about being like everyone. Don't go out of your way to go against people.
8.Be outgoing. Being shy won’t win you any new friends. You’re going to have to get out there and talk to people. You cannot be afraid to talk to others.
9.Know the guys. If you want to be popular, you can't just be friends with the popular girls. Talk to the popular guys and don't be afraid. Guys love it when a girl comes up to them and starts talking to them. Also, be flirty. This can prove for a fun conversation. Do this more often, and try to in the end have almost as many popular guy friends as popular girl friends. Remember, to be popular, you have to be hot, know all the popular girls, and guys have to like to be around you. That can't really be accomplished if you don't have any guy friends.
10 Seek opportunities to socialize. Even if it's just walking from one class to another, find someone that has the same schedule as you do so that you can walk and talk. If you really feel like doing something will benefit you, ask a friend to do it with you.